Monday, 1 December 2014

A world apart (Spain and China)


A view of Beijing on a clear-ish day
Our 'team' is currently in transition! John has made the move to our new home in sunny Madrid, Spain! And Kara is now just weeks behind- tying up some loose ends and finishing her employment in (the wintery) Beijing.
After exploring Turkey last month and immersing ourselves into the amazing European influences -yes we mean the food, we are excited to head to and make our next move to Spain.
In Madrid, John will be a student studying at one of Europe's top business schools and Kara will most likely find herself immersed in the wine (ah hem culture).

Eating Beijing noodles and dumplings
So at this time we prepare ourselves to say goodbye to China. This past year has been amazing and with the impending departure we had the chance to truly reflect on our experiences and send love to those who have helped us on our way. We hope that everyone gets the opportunity to visit China sometime in his or her life. It is truly a remarkable and different place to the west. In brevity, so cold, so hot, so old. Never have we seen so much weirdness, atrocities, passion and friendliness all in a day. We will miss China and our lives in China. Someone asked us the other day what we will miss the most and it sounds odd but we will miss being Westerners. In Beijing foreigners tend to mostly stick to common districts (typically around the embassy's) and with a ratio of 1:200 in a city of 25mil+ we are a rare breed. It sounds vain but in China westerners are prized for their pale complexions, light hair and big eyes. People stare, but they stare out of curiosity so it's a fleeting look or a quick smartphone photo. You are addressed as 'beautiful or pretty girl or handsome man' and people will remark 你是漂亮 (ni hao piaoliang) even if your face its puffy and red after climbing stairs on the mountainside for the last 40 minutes. It gives you a sense of confidence and you feel proud to be different. Living in China and not speaking Chinese is of course not without its challenges but this was part of the fun for us. There is some joy in being able to switch off everyone when out walking or sitting down to eat, living in ignorance of signs, local news and the bombardment of communication/propaganda can be somewhat relaxing. When you’re ready you can flick it back on.

Peking Opera
We probably won't miss the oily food, aside from the dumplings (favorite being 藕和 which is lotus root and egg) and certainly not the air pollution which on some days is so bad that you can't see the building 100metres in front of you. Nor will we miss the smoking and the foul spitting. We've seen things that can't be unseen, but when we reflect it's all those things that make China different too- and in a weird way.. we will miss it. 

We will miss the safety of China. China is an extremely safe country. Lastly we will miss the convenience China offers. Dinner sets you back not even 10mins and NZ$1.50- where can you eat cooked food so cheaply? 


Summer dinner atmosphere
A special Baozi

Until then, tot siens,
John and Kara





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